Crucial Conversations

Posted on 06 December 2018 by Kerry Patterson

Learn how to keep your cool and get the results you want when emotions flare.When stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong, you have three choices Avoid a crucial conversation and suffer the consequences handle the conversation badly and suffer the consequences or read Crucial Conversations and discover how to communicate best when it matters most Crucial Conversations gives you the tools you need to step up to life s most difficult and important conversations, say what s on your mind, and achieve the positive resolutions you want You ll learn how to Prepare for high impact situations with a six minute mastery technique Make it safe to talk about almost anything Be persuasive, not abrasive Keep listening when others blow up or clam up Turn crucial conversations into the action and results you want Free Read [ Crucial Conversations ] by [ Kerry Patterson ] For Kindle ePUB or eBook – kino-fada.fr Dear Goodreads A crucial conversation is one that1 opinions vary2 stakes are high3 parties involved have strong emotions.Sound familiar What we have at Goodreads is a Crucial Conversation.Ways you don t succeed in a crucial conversation 1 Allowing your emotion to dictate your dialogue Specifically, an emotional need to win or be right 2 Believe the answer is the fool s choice of a yes no, right left solution Ringing any bells I can t state what the emotions of GR staff are right Dear Goodreads A crucial conversation is one that1 opinions vary2 stakes are high3 parties involved have strong emotions.Sound familiar What we have at Goodreads is a Crucial Conversation.Ways you don t succeed in a crucial conversation 1 Allowing your emotion to dictate your dialogue Specifically, an emotional need to win or be right 2 Believe the answer is the fool s choice of a yes no, right left solution Ringing any bells I can t state what the emotions of GR staff are right now, but they can t be positive ones And we ve all witnessed how official my way or the highway belief in a new, unbroa...I teach this course and have found the skills and insights that people experience can be life changing This book will help you in your personal and professional relationships Crucial Conversations is not about being confrontational, avoiding conflict, or getting your way It...Ok, I read this because the boss suggested it He suggested it because I don t deal well with overly emotional, crying, touchy feely people I mof a get the hell over it kind of girl.The book is a jumbled up mess in the writing It bounces from one example to the next, explains half a concept, jumps to another example, explains another part of a concept, and the might or might not get back to the original example My guess is because it seems to have no less than 75 authors Too many c Ok, I read this because the boss suggested it He suggested it because I don t deal well with overly emotional, crying, touchy feely people I mof a get the hell over it kind of girl.The book is a jumbled up mess in the writing It bounces from one example to the next, explains half a concept, jumps to another example, explains another part of a concept, and the might or might not get back to the original example My guess is because it seems to have no less than 75 authors Too many cooks in the kitchen The conversation techniques are ones that everyone older than 10 should know anyway Shut up, let the other person talk, repeat what they said, then respectfully make your point...This book has valuable information, but the reader has to dig for it I m not impressed with the editing job I think the editor could have helped bringclarity to the discussion They come up with a lot of jargon that you have to remember throughout the book Start with Heart, Clever Stories, etc and keeping track of their key words and phrases makes the learning processdifficult.That said, I believe there are useful tools in the book some exercises are similar to Cognitive Beh This book has valuable information, but the reader has to dig for it I m not impressed with the editing job I think the editor could have helped bringclarity to the discussion They come up with a lot of jargon that you have to remember throughout the book Start with Heart, Clever Stories, etc and keeping track of their key words and phrases makes the learning processdifficult.That said, I believe there are...It seems like every business book nowadays has a foreword by Stephen R Covey It s almost like if he didn t endorse it it s not worth reading This book is not an easy read like Leadership and Self Deception, Who Moved My Cheese, or The Myth of Multitasking It is however worth reading because it has many gems and pearls of wisdom along the way A few of them I already knew Remember, to know and not do is really not to know p xvi He that complies against his will is of his own opinion s It seems like every business book nowadays has a foreword by Stephen R Covey It s almost like if he didn t endorse it it s not worth reading This book is not an easy read like Leadership and Self Deception, Who Moved My Cheese, or The Myth of Multitasking It is however worth reading because it has many gems and pearls of wisdom along the way A few of them I already knew Remember, to know and not do is really not to know p xvi He that complies against his will is of his own opinion still Samuel Butler p 23A few startled me as I read them because I realized they are problems I have but never noticed Do you hold in ugly opinions only to have them tumble out as sarcastic remarks or cheap shots p 13Labeling is putting a label on people or ideas so we can dismiss them under a general stereotype or category p 53By employing a handy label, we are now dealing not with a complex human being, but with a bonehead p 108Some were very humorous Individually smart people can do collectively stupid things...Probably the most influential book I ve read in the past five years The concepts have probably been around for a long time, but this was my first exposure to them I m still learning how to do the things mentioned here, but it really has helped me shift the way I think about others The authors have a web site with a lot of great stuff in it, and their monthly ish newsletter is one I actually read NOTE I haven t actually re read it since I first got it, so this is a review of impact and conten Probably the most influential book I ve read in the past five years The concepts have probably been around for a long time, but this was my first exposure to them I m still learning how to do the things mentioned here, but it really has helped me shift the way I think about others The authors have a web site with a lot of great stuff in it, and their monthly ish newsletter is one I actually read NOTE I haven t actually re read it since I first got it, so this is a r...This book has all the ingredients one needs to improve one s interactions when one is stuck in cycles of rage or disagreement It has remarkably similar prescriptions to other readings I have done on the subject on how to manage in a tense conversation in which one must come to some reasonable agreement If everyone read a book like this once or twice in their lifetimes we might actually move the evolution ball down the court in a significant way I wonder if in fact our politicians have had a l This book has all the ingredients one needs to improve one s interactions when one is stuck in cycles of rage or disagreement It has remarkably similar prescriptions to other readings I have done on the subject on how to manage in a tense conversation in which one must come to some reasonable agreement If everyone read a book like this once or twice in their lifetimes we might actually move the evolution ball down the court in a significant way I wonder if in fact our politicians hav...I love this book It changed my life and I recommend it to everyone One of the major problems that has plagued me all my life was becoming too emotional when things were important to me This book has helped me recognize that I was getting upset and helped me deal with my emotions so I could come back to the conversations from a calmer place The book is written in simple language with lots of repetition and stories to make it easy to read and understand The authors also use a lot of acronyms I love this book It changed my life and I recommend it to everyone One of the major problems that has plagued me all my life was becoming too emotional when things were important to me This book has helped me recognize that I was getting upset and helped me deal with my emotions so I could come back to the conversations from a calmer place The book is written in simple language with lots of repetition and stories to make it easy to read and understand The authors also use a lot of acronyms to help people remember what to do Some of the reviews have complained about this I have no complaints on this issue The book is intended to accessible to low level readers There are some...Crucial Conversations tackles one of the most difficult subjects in human relationships How to navigate difficult conversations when 1 the stakes are high 2 opinions are at opposite ends, and 3 when emotions are charged This book is so filled with insights and strategies, I had to read it twice and nearly use up two highlighters At it s core, the authors recommend asking yourself three critical questions before engaging in a difficult conversation What do I want for myself What do I want f Crucial Conversations tackles one of the most difficult subjects in human relationships How to navigate difficult conversations when 1 the stakes are high 2 opinions are at opposite ends, and 3 when emotions are charged This book is so filled with insights and strategies, I had to read it twice and nearly use up two highlighters At it s core, the authors recommend asking yourself three critical questions before engaging in a difficult conversation What do I want for myself What do I want for others What do I want for the relationship From here the authors offer a number of tools for navigating the rough seas of emotional volatility that often derails important discussions or prevents them from taking place at all CRIB 1 Committing to seek a mutual purpose 2 Recognizing the purpose behind the strategy 3 Invent a mutual purpose 4 Brainstorm new strategiesOnce t...Two years ago I joined a large firm as a software developer to develop a business application I was very excited as the opportunities were enormous and the growth potential was literally sky high But the excitement did not last long For, within a month of my work there, my manager kept making a series of decisions that were, well, simply unpalatable to me These decisions frustrated me tremednously and what sworse these disagreements seemed to be the norm rather than an exception I, quietl Two years ago I joined a large firm as a software developer to develop a business application I was very excited as the opportunities were enormous and the growth potential was literally sky high But the excitement ...

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06 December 2018

Kerry Patterson